How I can communicate with my daughter (15) who thinks that 'ma nag if I asked if they would like to do?
She sits all day do nothing, make plans, etc. I would like to enjoy their summer vacation, but no matter what I do or say it's my fault wrong. She can not take a decision on anything and if I press to consider something I am a witch. I think I'm being nice (hue, love), but turns everything around me. To be honest she goes out of their way to be miserable and negative and ruin any plan. If I say we go to a place at such a time that, we'd love you to go I'll wait until the last minutes and then say something sarcastic like she has nothing to wear, not observed (remember I'm upset), and sometimes tears poured for no other reason I'm there. I know mother / daughter relationships are difficult, but this is worse. I really think he'd love me out of his life. I am condemned what he does or say. I can not believe how rude and disrespectful that it has become. "This is really just a rite of passage?
Parts of it sound normal and the parties do not. For one thing never, never let you be rude and disrespectful to you. Too many parents today to write this as hormones and is not – it's just being rude and disrespectful. And it is the human nature not to respect people that let you get away with it. In the rest, seems to be something bothering her or she is still depressed. Why did not you say are his drawing to a nice lunch, let her pick the place, and then say you want to have an adult convo with her. Point out what I've noticed and ask outright what bothers her? Try to keep the discussion going, but if he keeps quiet or not talk, then tell her you're going to stop seeing a therapist (do not use this as a punishment – make it sound as an opportunity for her to talk to an adult who will listen and not judge), then the therapist will guide what happens after that. If it is really depressed, has to be discussed by a professional. Only consent to medication as a last resort.
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